You’re newly engaged and ready to start the process of planning your wedding…but where do you start and what all does planning a wedding involve? While there are several variables, like budget, location, and size, that will impact your wedding planning specifics, we wanted to go through the general basics to help give you a guide to get the process started.
Wedding Planning: First Steps
When you’re ready to get the planning process started, the first thing you want to do is create a wedding binder. Give yourself a good 2-3 weeks to really pull your ideas together. This binder will be your goto book until your big day. It will also make a cool keepsake once you’re married. You’ll want to keep a variety of things in your binder as you go along:
- Articles and photos from bridal and lifestyle magazines and websites
- Contact information for your wedding team
- Budgets and contracts
- Swatches, colors schemes and a photocopy of your vision board (if you opt to create a poster size version)
- Copy of your invitations, reserve the date cards, and your announcements
Your next step is going to be to define your budget. Decide what the absolute maximum you can afford to spend is and then define your ideal goal. This way you’ll know how much wiggle room you have to splurge as you go along.
Finally, you want to select your wedding party and pick a date. Your bridal party will be by your side throughout the process so you want to get them confirmed early on. And let’s face it, the entire planning process will revolve around your wedding date, so this is a must have before you move forward.
These first steps should take you about a month from start to finish.
Wedding Planning: Bringing in the Professionals

Most newly engaged understand the value of a wedding planner but are under the impression that it’s too expensive or that they can handle everything by themselves. We caution against this misconception as hiring a professional wedding planner can actually save you time, money, and stress down the road.
When selecting your wedding planner, remember ‘referral, research, and interview’ in order to find the right wedding planner for you and your soon-to-be spouse. Also, it’s a great idea to share your wedding binder with your planner during your first meeting. Seeing your binder, and vision board, if you have one, will give your planner a good idea of your wants and likes and will make the overall process much easier for you both.
Once you have your wedding planner secured, you will begin the process of selecting a venue, an officiant, photographer, caterer, band, and florist. When it comes to finding the perfect wedding professional services, your wedding planner will be able to guide you and help to set up tastings, meetings, and events where you can experience for yourself which services you would like to book. The monthly EBE Live Band Showcase is a great example of how you can hear tons of great bands in one afternoon and find the perfect sound for your upcoming wedding.
This phase typically lasts about three months from start to finish.
Wedding Planning: The Little Things
Your wedding planner will guide you through everything as you get closer to your big day, but some little details to keep in mind include:
- Reserving hotel room blocks for out of town guests
- Creating wedding goodie bags for out of town guests they’ll receive upon arrival
- Creating a wedding website
- Developing a day-of timeline so everything is laid out in detail (make this available to your maid of honor as well)
Create a detailed checklist with your wedding planner so you’re sure everything that’s important to you is covered, no matter how small the task is. RealSimple has a great checklist that you can use as an initial wedding planning checklist guide. This checklist will help guide you through the remainder of the process, right up through your big day.
The two most important things to remember are that no two weddings are alike….this is your big day, so make it personal and a reflection of you. This is your love story to tell, not anyone else’s. Secondly, relax and have fun! This process can be an overwhelming one, so lean on your wedding planner and maid of honor (that’s what they are there for) and soak up every moment along the way to your big day.

Nick Centrella has been with EBE for 4 years and is the bandleader for EBE Sydney. The Philadelphia native has been on the Philly cover scene for the past 20 years, performing in clubs and music venues up and down the East Coast. Nick has fronted some of the biggest bands on the circuit.
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Thomas Hefferon has been with EBE for almost 9 years and been in the music industry for 20 years.
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You most likely won’t be inviting everyone to your destination wedding, so it will be time to celebrate with family and friends once you’re back! You’ll want to plan this party before you head out for your wedding and send out the invitation out 5-6 weeks prior to the event.
Here are some of our favorite themes:
Now that you have your theme, it’s time to create your invitations. Today’s invitations can be almost anything from a traditional paper invite to a passport, a decorated mask, or even something as simple and modern as a digital invitation.
Centerpieces are amazing additions to your overall decor and really help to tie everything all together. They can be lavish or simple and small.
Typically a sweet sixteen celebration won’t’ have assigned seating so there is no need for a seating chart, but establishing reserved tables for the adults is always a good idea.
Photo booths and photos stations are amazingly popular at parties and events these days. They are a fun way for guests to get to express themselves, cut loose, and get a one-of-a-kind party souvenir.
Having your party guests leave a message in celebration is a tradition…but who says that it has to be done in a book?
Gifts and favors are a great way to tell your guests how much you appreciate them coming out and celebrating with your daughter. When it comes to deciding what to give your guests there are two things to consider: your theme and your budget.
Dave Papa Giorgio, born in Philadelphia, is an American singer/songwriter, professional musician, and Band Leader for EBE’s Love 77. He has been with EBE for 12 years.
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Obviously, wedding attire is the first place you’ll want to bring in your favorite color. When it comes to your bridesmaids, have some fun and let them each wear varying shades of purple…the variations in color will add subtle depth to your wedding photos. You can also tie in an accent color, like a sash, that will make their dresses pop even more.
Drapes, table clothes, and canopies
Here are some of our favorite themes for bat mitzvahs:
Here are some of our favorite themes for bar mitzvahs:
Now that you have your theme, it’s time to create your invitations. Today’s invitations can be almost anything from a traditional paper invite to a backstage pass, a decorated cookie, to even a digital invitation.
As with any planned event, you’ll want to create a seating chart. When your guests arrive, you can provide them with their seating details. A fun way to handle this task is to create a seating station where guests can find their seat locations for themselves.
Centerpieces are amazing additions to your overall decor and really help to tie everything all together. They can also be used as raffle prizes for your guests to take home at the end of the event.
Having your party guests leave a message in celebration is a tradition…but who says that it has to be done in a book?
Gifts and favors are a great way to tell your guests how much you appreciate them coming out and celebrating with you. When it comes to deciding what to give your guests there are two things to consider: your theme and your budget.
While it’s not a requirement, menu boards are a fun way to add to your decorations and overall theme, while also letting your guests know what their food options for the party will be.
While cakes are the tradition, today’s bat and bar mitzvahs are open to modern interpretations. You can set up a cupcake tower or cake pop display, allowing guests to grab and go with the perfect serving. You can also pre-cut your cake instead of having guests wait in line.
When your guests are leaving the party, it’s tradition to offer them a snack to take with them. There are tons of really cool and unique ways to handle this part.
Want to handle the exit snacks a little differently? Then think outside of the donut box!
The candle lighting ceremony is part of the bat and bar mitzvah tradition. However, create an area that supports the party theme and that becomes a special place for your child.
Photo booths and photos stations are amazingly popular at parties and events these days. They are a fun way for guests to get to express themselves, cut loose, and get a one-of-a-kind party souvenir.
And finally, create an area for games and karaoke for the kids. This can be anything from Twiter and Simon Says, to a baking or crafting station.